Well! As you can tell, I really didn't write much about
yesterday, and I'll tell you why. My cousin went to work, her husband
went to work, my niece went to school. Do you see where this is going?
Hrmm... Yes yes, I stayed at home on my own and relaxed. Alone, and
yeah, it was nice. Around 4 in the afternoon, Gabi came home with
Małgosia, and we had a late obiad. Then we took Małgosia to her
Tae-kwon-do lesson, which she's apparently tired of, but obviously going
to finish what has been planned, and then came back home after running
by Gabi's work to scan something in for me. Then, the evening was spent
relaxing.
Really, that's it for the day. I stayed up
rather late for the first time (2:30 am), chatting with Ani, which was
maaarvelous. Definitley have missed my chatting time with her. </3
But it should be fixing itself now!
So, a few things I
forgot to mention about the weekend in Bydgoszcz in general; it's
actually a good thing that I ended up coming Friday, because I would've
spent my first few days at home alone, otherwise, so timing was awesome.
My niece has an incredible memory. You see, I asked what she
remembered of me, because ya know, we traveled part of Poland together
in 2005 when I was here for the first time on my own. Yet, the first
thing she said was that she remembered me playing a little accordion for
my very ill grandmother, and she remembered how she wanted to play on
it as well. ... Just so you get an idea of timeline. My grandmother died
in late 2002. My niece was born in late 2000. This must've been in the
summer of 2002, then. Aka, she was less than two years old, and she
remembered that. That is impressive. I was blown away, as I can't
remember anything before I was about 3-4 thanks to an essential memory
wipe when I was that age (ask me about it if you would like).
Besides that, however, I also got a new pair of shoes this weekend! ...
... From my soon-to-be-11-year-old niece... ... Just to give you
another idea, this girl received most of my childhood clothing, and
now... here I am. 9 years older than her. Receiving her shoes. That are
too small for her. ... And they're still half a size too big. Damn. I
am tiny. They're really nice Adidas, though, clean, and comfortable,
and being a half-size too big isn't a problem, so I took them, but
still. It feels a bit ridiculous. In fact, Gabi even suggested I might
be able to fit into some of her old jeans, length wise at least. ...
Well... damnit. That's all I can really think to say. Ah well. She
would've given the shoes to someone else anyways, so yay! New tennis
shoes!
Anyways, this morning, I woke up to Gabi
telling me her parents, my uncle and aunt, actually are coming today and
we're going to go to Strzelin all day. Huh... I was expecting them to
come today, and that we would leave tomorrow morning, actually, but
whatever. I woke up, quickly packed, ate breakfast, and they eventually
came. After they put their dog in the cage to keep her away from Kenso
(she apparently just finished being in heat a week ago, so Kenso was
chasing her... a lot... and managed to get her out of the cage...), we
left. We hugged and waved our good byes as we went our separate ways,
and on the way, my uncle, and aunt and I all talked a bit and caught up.
It was actually really cool, because my aunt kept asking about Samantha
(from FL), and her family. Ya know, asking how she is and everything.
You wanna know why that's so cool? Because it's essentially a mini sort
of verification that our families are like family. Not just friends.
People normally ask about people you know if you know they are
incredibly important in their lives, like family, so going off of
typical behavior and explanations, well, that was just an awesome
moment. (:
Hmm... Let's see what else was interesting
about the ride... We talked a lot, typical things, like school here and
at Vandy, family, lots of things. My uncle kept acting like a captain in
directing my aunt how to drive.... Although she was driving just fine.
(Yes, this uncle is the captain of a ship, and he travels all around the
world.) Ah! As we got closer to Wrocław, I started telling them a ton
of things, such as pointing out SkyTower, the new bridge, about the new
highway and the new stadium, since they haven't been in about 2 years. I
felt like SUCH a local, and it was really bizarre. I essentially knew
more about a part of Poland than they did. We went on the highway, and
well, we ended up going into the city again by taking an exit too early,
so we still had to drive through the city, unfortunatley...
Unfortunately timewise, I mean. To be honest, I was super excited when I
saw SkyTower on the horizon. I honestly felt as though I were going
home. I missed it. I really like Wrocław, and I feel like I could live here forever, really. Honestly, Krakow, as a city, is going to have a tough time beating it, despite
the fact that everyone keeps telling me it's going to be the best. I
mean, sure, I'll love hanging out with the people, and I can't deny it's
a cool city, but... I somehow doubt I'll feel as comfortable and at
home as I did in Wrocław. And some of you may ask: Well, isn't it
because you just feel happier in Poland? That might be partially true,
but while I was in Bydgoszcz, while I greatly enjoyed seeing a new city
and seeing the new things, and just looking around, I didn't have the
same feeling of home like I feel in Wrocław (and that was something I picked up immediately) or Vanderbilt, for example.
Eventually we got through Wrocław,
and drove to Strzelin. We had a nice late obiad here as well, which was
delicious, and my uncles and aunts talked to each other and caught up
since they haven't seen each other in a while. It was partically
grandparent talk, which was really cool, and listening to them talk
about other grandparents and how they aren't as involved in their
grandchildren's lives, well... it just made me think more about my
parents and how I do want them to be close to me wherever I end up
living. Even though I used to basically roll my eyes whenever my mom
said she's moving with me to Australia. Yeah, definitely not rolling my
eyes anymore.
Ah, so in this trip, oh goodness, I
totally saw the family connection between my uncle, Bogdan, who picked
me up from Bydgoszcz, and my mom. Bahahahaha, totally from the same
family. They look a bit alike, of course, but personality. Stubborn as
hell, have it their way and only their way, and impatient to the boot!
A) These traits are not all completely negative, and b) it's easier to
compare negative traits than positive, not that they only have negative
traits, obviously. :P But wow. It was hilarious. Just that total
realization. It's always fun seeing that family relation, to be honest.
Just interesting, ya know?
Oh, ohoh! School starts in a week! School starts in a week! SCHOOL STARTS IN A WEEK!
Aka, oh thank goodness gracious, I CANNOT WAIT! I am so tired of not
doing anything productive or learning or challenging myself. I LIKE
learning. I LIKE school. I enjoy it! And the best part of all of this? I
talked with Gabi in the car about it, ya know, and it sort of made me
realize, wow... if I got so anxious after not having school for five
months (I ended May 3, and am starting October 3/4), then... ya know
what. That's good. That's a comfort. That's a reassurance. That means I
will be ok in continuing my education to get my doctorate, and that I'll
enjoy it despite all of the stress, and just furthermore that my plan
to be a professor is rather supported in desire. Because part of being a
professor is continually learning and researching and just keeping up
with new stuff. It just fits! Hoorah! Life realizations! But really... I
need this. Super. Excited. Everyone else likely hates me, but oh
goodness. I am so pumped. And it's so weird. I'm going to be meeting the
fellow students in API in two days. Start the completely new
experience, in two days. Where did this time go?!
Well, I'll leave with all of this incredible excitement! As the rest of
my evening looks rather slow; ya know, chatting with people, making sure
everything is good. Ah! Also, today I filled in my photo frame, and it
looks awesome. I have one extra picture, by accident, but whoops! Adios,
my dear friends!
Allo one and all! I, Nell, a student from Vanderbilt University, will be keeping records of my adventures abroad in Poland right here! So you may amuse yourself and read all about my days. If you know me, this will also give you some assurance that I am alive and well, and loving life. :) Enjoy my logs!
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